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Client Guide

As an independent escort based in Chicago, I strive to provide a safe and enjoyable experience for both of us. To ensure a smooth and mutually satisfying encounter, please read the following comprehensive guide on how to be a good client:

1. Payment Upon Meeting: Please have the agreed-upon payment ready in cash. It is customary to present the payment discreetly in an unsealed envelope within the first few minutes of our meeting. This allows us to relax and focus on our time together.

2. Deposit and Screening Procedures: In certain cases, a deposit may be required to secure your booking. This is a standard industry practice to ensure the commitment of both parties. Additionally, I may request screening information to prioritize our safety and build trust. Your personal information will be handled with the utmost confidentiality.

3. Verification Process: Please understand that I do not provide selfies or videos for verification purposes. Instead, I encourage you to rely on reviews and references from reputable providers. This approach ensures discretion and prevents scammers from misusing my photos. Building trust with clients and using references as a verification method is crucial for maintaining a safe working environment.

4. Photos: I do not offer photos for free upon request. This decision is based on several factors, including time and resource management. As an established escort, I have invested significant effort, time, and money in building my online presence, trust with clients, and establishing a reputable image. Providing photos for free upon request would be unsustainable, and it could lead to misuse of my images.

5. Boundaries and Restrictions: Open communication is vital. If you are unsure about my boundaries or have specific questions, please feel free to ask. I have a list of restrictions that you should read and respect to ensure a comfortable and enjoyable experience for both of us. Always ask for consent and respect any limits I may have.

6. Pricing Policy: I do not negotiate prices. My rates are carefully calculated to promote fairness within the sex work community while considering the average costs in the city. It is important to understand that my prices reflect the quality of service and the effort, time, and expenses I invest in advertising, supplies, maintaining my appearance, and prioritizing my own well-being.

7. Privacy and Discretion: I value privacy and discretion, and I kindly request that you do the same. Refrain from asking for my real name or using it during our interactions. Respecting my privacy contributes to a safe and professional atmosphere.

8. Time Management: Please respect my time and make sure to arrive promptly for our scheduled appointment. Avoid making last-minute changes or cancellations unless absolutely necessary. My time is valuable, and it is essential to be considerate of each other's schedules.

9. Respect and Communication: Remember, you are purchasing a service from me, not buying me as a person. Treat me with respect and kindness. If you have any questions or concerns, communicate them politely and clearly. Mutual respect and understanding create a more enjoyable experience for both parties.

10. Weapons Policy: If you carry a weapon, it is essential to communicate this to me in advance. For everyone's safety, please ensure that any weapons are visible at all times during our encounter. Discovering a concealed weapon without prior knowledge may be perceived as a threat.

11. Discretion and Trust: I prioritize discretion and trust in all aspects of our interaction. I handle your personal information with care, and I expect the same level of respect in return. Rest assured that your privacy is of utmost importance to me.

12. Time and Effort: Understand that being an escort requires significant investment in terms of time, money, and effort. I dedicate resources to advertising, maintaining my appearance, and ensuring a safe environment. Your understanding and appreciation of these efforts are greatly valued. Thank you for taking the time to read through this client guide. By adhering to these guidelines, we can establish a positive and memorable experience. If you have any further questions or need clarification, please feel free to contact me.

Rules and Regulations

As an independent escort in Chicago, I have established a set of restrictions, rules, and policies to ensure a safe and mutually respectful experience. Failure to adhere to these guidelines may result in immediate termination of communication. Here is an in-depth summary of my policies

1.Treat me with respect, kindness, and professionalism at all times.

2. Arrive on time for our scheduled appointments and notify me in advance if you need to cancel or reschedule.

3. Practice good personal hygiene and arrive clean and groomed for our encounters.

Consent and Protection:

1. Consent is essential in all interactions. Engaging in any sexual activity without clear and enthusiastic consent is strictly prohibited.

2. Removing protection without my knowledge or consent is considered a violation and constitutes rape.

3. Failure to pay the agreed-upon amount is also considered rape.

Fairness and Boundaries:

1. Negotiating or attempting to lower the agreed-upon price is disrespectful and disregards my boundaries. Clients who engage in such behavior will not be considered for future meetings.

2. Requests to remove protection or offering additional money for unprotected services will not be tolerated, and the potential client will be immediately denied.

Pricing and Deposits:

1. My rates are determined by various factors, including promoting fairness in the sex work community by not charging below the city average, travel costs, supplies, outfits, gym memberships, makeup, nails, hair, toys, incall space, and time spent on booking customers and screening.

2. A 20% non-refundable deposit is required to secure appointments. This deposit helps prevent loss of time and resources on my part.

Safety and Discretion:

1. If a client carries a weapon, it must be disclosed to me in advance, as finding a concealed weapon will be considered a threat to my safety.

2. Privacy, discretion, safety, and satisfaction are my top priorities. Please respect my confidentiality by not disclosing my real name. Asking for my real name is considered a disregard for my privacy and confidentiality.

3. Cancellation policy: In the event of a cancellation, please provide as much notice as possible. Clients who repeatedly cancel without proper notice may be denied future appointments.

Screening and Confidentiality:

1. I have a light screening policy, which may include references from other providers, video call verification, photo verification, LinkedIn, or other forms of light identification.

2. Refusal to undergo the screening process will result in the immediate termination of our communication.

3. I take client confidentiality seriously and go to great lengths to ensure it. Your personal information will be handled with the utmost care and discretion. By adhering to these policies, we can create a safe, respectful, and mutually beneficial experience. Thank you for your cooperation.

 As an independent escort in Chicago, I have established a set of restrictions, rules, and policies to ensure a safe and mutually respectful experience. Failure to adhere to these guidelines may result in immediate termination of communication. Here is an in-depth summary of my policies:

Screening and Communication:

1. Adequate screening information is required to ensure the safety of both parties involved. Failure to provide the necessary screening information may result in the termination of communication.

2. Asking for services that I have clearly stated I do not offer is not permitted.

3. Price negotiation of any kind is not allowed and will result in the termination of communication.

4. Last-second cancellations or cancellations without notice are not tolerated, as they result in the loss of time and resources.

5. Showing up unannounced, bringing other people to the session, or recording/photographing without clear consent is strictly prohibited.

6. Showing up without the agreed-upon compensation or providing a lower amount will result in immediate termination of the session.

7. Providing incorrect or mismatched outcall addresses is not permitted.

8. Having other people present during the session is not allowed.

9. Calling me by my real name or attempting to pursue a romantic relationship or date will lead to immediate termination of communication.

10. Disregarding my rulesand restrictions will result in serious repercussions.

Sessions Involving Another Person:

1. Requests for two-person sessions (two girl meets) must be scheduled at least a week in advance.

2. If I do not know the other girl, she must communicate with me prior to the session being booked.

3. The same protection-only rule applies to all individuals involved in the session, regardless of gender or relationship.

4. Price matching at the higher rate is required for two-person sessions to promote fairness.

5. If the client wants a two male meet, I will choose the man, and he must be compensated for his time to ensure my safety.

Specific Session Restrictions:

1. New clients are not allowed to engage in activities such as choking, gagging, tying up, hardcore BDSM, or CNC (Consensual Non-Consent).

2. Asking me on dates or attempting to pursue a romantic relationship will result in immediate termination of communication.

3. Any activity performed without my clear and enthusiastic consent will result in serious repercussions.

Protection and Boundaries:

1. I strictly adhere to a protection-only policy. 

2. Current STD test results are available upon request for your peace of mind. However, personal information such as my real name will not be provided to ensure my safety and confidentiality.

Incalls and Personal Background:

1. Dates that require knowledge of my residential address or incalls will require slightly more in-depth screenings for both our safety and privacy.

2. Please communicate any specific kinks or fetishes prior to our meeting to ensure clear consent and to help me provide the best experience possible.

3. If you have additional personal background information that is not covered in this list, please communicate it to me before our session.

By following these restrictions, rules, and policies, we can create a safe, respectful, and enjoyable experience for both of us. If you have any further questions or concerns, please feel free to ask.

Consent is a fundamental aspect of any healthy and respectful sexual encounter. As a sex worker client, it is crucial to understand and prioritize consent to ensure a positive and consensual experience for both you and your provider. In this guide, we will explore the definition of consent, the importance of seeking consent, how to ask for consent, what constitutes non-consent or rape, and how to handle situations where your provider denies consent for specific services.

1. Understanding Consent: Consent, in its simplest form, means giving voluntary and informed agreement to engage in a specific sexual activity. It is an ongoing process that can be given or withdrawn at any point. Consent is enthusiastic, freely given, and must be obtained without coercion or under the influence of substances that impair judgment.

2. The Importance of Seeking Consent: Consent is a cornerstone of ethical and consensual sexual encounters. By actively seeking and obtaining consent, you ensure that all parties involved are comfortable, respected, and empowered. It establishes clear boundaries, fosters trust, and promotes a positive and pleasurable experience for both you and your provider. 3. How to Ask for Consent:

a. Communication: Open and honest communication is key. Ask your provider directly if they are comfortable proceeding with a specific sexual activity. Use clear and explicit language to avoid any misunderstandings.

b. Active Listening: Pay attention to verbal and non-verbal cues. Consent can be expressed through enthusiastic verbal agreement, body language, or gestures. If you are unsure, ask for clarification.

c. Respect Boundaries: Respect any boundaries or limits set by your provider. Consent is not a one-time agreement; it should be ongoing and continuously respected throughout the encounter.

d. Affirmative Consent: Seek affirmative consent, where your provider actively and willingly agrees to engage in the specific activity. Silence or lack of resistance does not imply consent. 4. Non-Consent and Rape: Non-consensual sexual activities, including rape, are illegal and morally wrong. It is essential to understand that any sexual act without the explicit and enthusiastic consent of all parties involved is non-consensual and constitutes sexual assault. Respect the autonomy and boundaries of your provider at all times.

5. What to Do if Consent is Denied for Specific Services: It is important to remember that providers have the right to deny consent for specific services or activities. Consent is not a blanket agreement for all activities. If your provider denies consent for a particular service, respect their decision without pressuring or coercing them. Seek alternative activities that are mutually agreed upon and focus on enhancing the connection and pleasure within those boundaries.

6. Addressing Consent Concerns or Issues: If you have any concerns or encounter issues related to consent during the encounter, communicate immediately with your provider. Discuss your concerns openly and honestly, allowing the opportunity for clarification, adjustment, or cessation of activities if needed. Respect the boundaries and decisions of your provider for a mutually enjoyable experience.

Consent is the foundation of a respectful and consensual sexual encounter. As a sex worker client, it is your responsibility to prioritize and actively seek consent throughout the encounter. By understanding the definition of consent, asking for consent, respecting boundaries, and addressing any concerns promptly, you contribute to a positive and safe experience for both you and your provider. Remember, consent is ongoing, enthusiastic, and can be withdrawn at any time. By embracing a culture of consent, you contribute to a more inclusive, respectful, and empowering environment within the realm of sex work.

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